Summer fun

Chitown summer hit hard last week... the ancient window unit A/C was cranked up and to my wonderful surprise, it still works!  

Let me tell you-- nobody appreciates summer more than Chicagoans.   The outdoor cafes are packed, there is a near constant stream of people walking to and from the beach, and the farmers markets are the places to be.   I am especially proud of my backyard roses... a daily reminder to stop and smell them.  : )

I spent my first official summertime weekend day living it up -- a bike ride, brunch, and a dip in the pool.  My friend Marisa and I almost had ourselves fooled into believing that the salt hill next door was the mountains, the pool at Smith Park the ocean, and the hard concrete a sandy beach.  It worked for about 5 minutes... until the car alarms started beeping.  But, hey, it was a good 5 minutes!!

I continue to love the new schedule.  Sleeping at night rules!

I haven't heard anything from DCFS-- I am still awaiting their approval.  My home visit is on hold until I am approved, so I am a little anxious for this to happen.  I have however been gathering my many, many documents that will compile the dossier.  

A question for other adoptive parents:  When did you tell your employer that you were adopting?  This is my dilemma... I need a letter from the hospital I work for stating that I am an employee in good standing, blah, blah, blah.  The problem is that I just changed departments (last week!) and I'm not sure when it's appropriate to tell (or not tell).   I would really like to have the letter from them in a couple of weeks, but I'm nervous!  It will be the first time that I've told a near-stranger of my adoptive plans.   Any advice is appreciated! 

In Ethio-news, I had a great time last night at the opening ceremony of the ESFNA soccer tourney.  Music, food, dancing, and R & N getting $5 fake Ethio-tattoos... it doesn't get much better than that!  Here is the link to the week of fun in Chicago if you have time.  

Making Progress...

A lot has happened in the last few weeks!  

I had a birthday (#32!), I got a new job, my sister got married, and I have ALMOST completed my homestudy!  

My sister's wedding was so nice--she looked radiant and I am so thrilled for her and her new husband!  After the wedding was over, I started telling many of my cousins, aunts, uncles, etc... about the impending adoption.  I am thrilled to say that (for the most part--grandparents may take some time!) everyone was excited and genuinely happy.  I know my mom is excited that she can start proclaiming herself a grandma.  : )

So, I had my 3rd (out of 4) meeting with my social worker and it went a-million-times better than the last couple of meetings.  I don't know what the change was, but I feel like we are now on the same side.  What a relief!  As my next appointment with her is my home visit, I feel like I will be MUCH less nervous.  Now, to start cleaning.....

I have started emailing/trading blogs with other single parents adopting from Ethiopia and it has been very helpful.  So nice to have someone to bounce feelings off of who has gone through/is going through the same joys (and frustrations).  Thanks, guys!

In other news, I start my new job tomorrow.   A little nervous, but more excited.  I will be working in a clinic at the same hospital, so the hours are glorious.  Fingers crossed for a great first day!

Moving right along

Since my last post, I've met twice with my home study counselor, attended two classes, read multiple books, and spent an embarrassing amount of hours reading other adopt0-blogs.   

While it has been a lot of work (and potentially most of my detailed paperwork still lies ahead) it hasn't been horrible.  I think it has to do with knowing that my end product is coming home with a kid! 

I have had some ups and downs emotionally lately about the process in general.  First, there have been changes in the Ethiopia program which will possibly make my adoption harder to process.  Second, I go back and forth between wondering if this adoption is indeed the BEST thing to do.  

For those of you who don't know me- my plan involved applying for Peace Corps service next year and then pursuing an MPH, focusing on international health issues.  When I started thinking about adoption, all of those other plans started to seem dull in comparison.    

But, just this week, I was reading an article about the health situation in Ethiopia and I started to have this feeling.  Am I really helping the problem by adopting a child?  Could my exorbitant adoption fees be better spent in assisting a program already established in Ethiopia?  Will this adoption ever actually come to fruition anyway?   

For now, I've decided I can't answer these big questions.  I know that I am ready to be a parent.  I know that there are many children who are waiting for a home.  And, I know that I am ready to share my heart and home with one of them.  So, I am moving right along.  

And, as the quote tells us...

"Adopting one child won't change the world; but for that one child, the world will change. "

P.S.  I got a new job!  No more night shifts!! No more weekends!!!

Aha!

A couple of weeks ago, while volunteering in Ethiopia, I had my moment.  I have always known that I wanted to adopt... why not now?  When I couldn't come up with a good reason, my best friend couldn't come up with a good reason, and even my MOM couldn't come up with one... I knew it was time. 

After much (MUCH!) web researching and many phone calls to agencies, I have decided to pursue adoption from Ethiopia.  My first appointment with my local adoption counselor (for my home study) is set for this week.  I just turned in my application with my international agency.  Geez... this is really happening!!

I plan on blogging here about my process because I have gained so much from others' blogs.  It's only fair, right?

Here we go!